Nigerian singer Daniel Etiese Benson, popularly known as BNXN, has opened up about the emotional challenges he faces in love, particularly in Lagos.

The “Finesse” hitmaker shared his frustrations on X (formerly Twitter), candidly stating:

“To find love for Eko too hard for me o.”

The post quickly ignited reactions from fans, many of whom recalled his controversial past relationships. One high-profile incident involved alleged Swedish ex-girlfriend Filma Jones in 2022, who accused BNXN of impregnating and abandoning her. She reportedly leaked his private photos to support her claims.

BNXN admitted that the episode caused him significant emotional heartbreak, marking the first time he had experienced such pain. He also revealed another troubling encounter with a different woman who allegedly attempted to blackmail him with a fake pregnancy following a one-night stand.

These experiences, the singer explained, have made love difficult for him, especially in a bustling city like Lagos, where fast-paced lifestyles often complicate relationships.

Following his candid post, fans flooded his timeline with messages of support, advice, and humor. Many sympathized with his struggles, while others remarked that dating in Lagos is a challenge for nearly everyone—not just celebrities.