Social media personality Saida Boj has joined the growing conversation surrounding skit maker and streamer Carter Efe and his baby mama, Emmanuella, strongly criticising his recent public comments about their relationship.

Reacting to Carter Efe’s claims that he has been single for over a year and had to distance himself from his former partner, Saida Boj argued that a person’s true character often only becomes visible after exposure to fame and financial success.

According to her, relationships that were formed during periods of struggle are frequently re-evaluated once money and public recognition enter the picture. She described it as unfair and insensitive for a man to dismiss a woman as a burden after she stood by him through hardship, pregnancy, and financial instability.

Saida Boj suggested that Carter Efe’s sudden change in attitude may be linked more to his rising profile and growing attention than to genuine issues within the relationship. She emphasized that loyalty during difficult times should not be forgotten once success arrives.

In her words, she said:

“One thing about broke men is that you’ll never know their real character until they’re exposed to wealth. This girl fell in love with you, got pregnant for you, and tolerated you when you were broke. Now that you’re getting the recognition and attention you wanted, she’s suddenly a burden and not a good person.”

Her comments have further fueled online debate, with social media users divided over Carter Efe’s actions and the treatment of his baby mama amid his recent success.