Toke Makinwa, the popular media personality, has shared that she spent her entire 20s focused on one relationship.

Reflecting on her youthful years and the lessons she’s learned, Makinwa admitted she didn’t enjoy her twenties. In an appearance on Cocktails and Takeaways, she revealed, “I don’t think I liked my twenties. I don’t think I knew what I was doing because I was in love with one man. I spent my whole twenties following him.”

Looking back, Makinwa expressed gratitude for where she is today, acknowledging that her experiences have shaped her. She also offered advice to younger generations: “You have no business getting married in your early or mid-twenties. Take the time to figure yourself out and truly know who you are first.”