Kandi Burruss is setting the record straight after sharing a family photo on Instagram that sparked questions about her ex-husband Todd Tucker’s presence during Thanksgiving. Fans noticed that while Burruss’s children and Tucker’s daughter Kaela were included in the festive post, Tucker himself was missing. The Real Housewives of Atlanta star quickly addressed the speculation, emphasizing that her ex-husband was very much part of the family holiday celebration.

Kandi Burruss and Todd Tucker’s Divorce Update

The 49-year-old singer, songwriter, and reality TV personality confirmed her split from Tucker, 52, in an exclusive statement to PEOPLE on November 21, 2025. Burruss said, “My focus remains on protecting my peace, being the best mother I can be, and co-parenting with love and respect.” She explained that the decision to divorce came after much thought, prayer, and consideration, describing the period as a “difficult and emotional time.”

Despite the split, Burruss has been clear about her priority: maintaining a loving and respectful co-parenting relationship with Tucker for the sake of their family. She added, “I’m stepping into a new chapter pouring into my work, my family, and my own growth. I’m grateful to everyone who supported us throughout the years, and I ask for privacy, grace, and understanding as we navigate this transition with our family.”

Thanksgiving Celebration Highlights

On Thanksgiving, Burruss posted an Instagram photo featuring her three children—Riley, 23; Ace, 9; and Blaze, 6—alongside Kaela, Tucker’s daughter from a previous relationship. In her caption, she wrote:

“Happy Thanksgiving! I truly enjoyed my day with my fam. I hope you enjoyed yours! Now I feel stuffed like a turkey & need to lay down. ❤️🦃”

Fans quickly noticed Tucker was absent from the photo, prompting questions in the comments. Burruss responded directly, clarifying:

“Before anyone assumes anything, Todd came earlier to eat with us but he wasn’t there for the pic. He was not left out or anything like that.”

Her response emphasized that the holiday gathering remained a family affair, despite the ongoing divorce proceedings.

Reflections on Personal Growth and Moving Forward

During an Amazon Live appearance on November 24, Burruss opened up about how she has been processing the divorce. She shared that while her social media often shows her smiling, it doesn’t fully reflect the emotional challenges she has been navigating.

“All the times you’ve been seeing me online [all smiles] means nothing. I’ve been going through it,” Burruss revealed. She acknowledged that sometimes relationships simply don’t work out, stating, “It just is what it is.”

Her comments reflect a commitment to personal growth, family, and professionalism, even amid a public and emotional transition. Burruss continues to focus on her career and raising her children with love and support, showing that she’s prioritizing her mental health and well-being during this life change.